If you are constantly complaining about how terrible men are, and how you wish you had the perfect guy in your life, but you can't even seem to get a second date. Maybe you need to take a step back and examine if you are a prime candidate for that dream man. If you want to attract the ideal mate, you need to make sure you are putting your best self out in the world. Review this list of things that men find very unattractive in a woman and take a look at who you are, if you embody any of these things, you might want to change that.
As a grown up, you need to learn how to hold your liquor and when enough is enough. A man is not going to want to drag you out of the club a sloppy mess every weekend because you have taken one to many tequila shots. Learn your limits and keep it classy.
Having a distinctive voice or a resonating laugh is one thing. Not understanding your surroundings and how the level of your voice affects others around you is super embarrassing. It comes off as self centered if you don't know when is the right time to yell loudly and when its good to keep it quiet.
You can have your opinions, that is important. But you are not the only person in the world whose opinions matter. If you feel like you should be always right, and you know everything about everything. You might need to eat a slice of humble pie and learn the world doesn't revolve around you.
It shouldn't matter where you came from, or how much you have or don't have. You still need to be a good person and understand and respect everyone around you. Being a spoiled little princess is not a cute game or funny. It shows that you are ignorant and feel that you are better than others which is not cute.
If you want to be with someone, the foundation of that relationship needs to be trust. If you let your jealously fly high, then you are not going to build a solid foundation and your partner is going to get really sick of your really quickly. Jealousy usually comes from your own insecurities, work on those.
A person who is magnetic and effortlessly attractive tends to usually have a positive outlook on life, even in tough situations. If you are someone who constantly feels like the world is against you and life is just one big self pity fest, then you are going to become instantly less attractive to everyone around you.
Don't base your own worth on who you know. That is so shallow. If anyone seems interest in your name dropping lines it is only because they want to use you to social climb. It shouldn't matter who you know, it matters who you are. Be a good person and watch yourself shine.
Maybe you have some insecurities within yourself where you never feel heard, even if someone is listening to you. Learn how to achieve self growth and don't place those insecurities on other by constantly nagging at someone to be better, change themselves, or validate you.
Makeup is a beautiful thing, and can really increase self confidence and highlight the best physical attributes in people. But it does not define your beauty. Makeup should be used sparingly, because you should let your confidence and natural beauty shine through. Don't hide behind layers of foundation.
As an adult woman you should have the ability and self confidence to go about life on your own. You shouldn't need someone to constantly take care of you. So you definitely should not expect that in a partner. It is not sexy if you are constantly whining and asking someone to do everything for you.
Life is about taking opportunities and being an active participant, so that you can live your best life possible. Someone who lays around all day, watching Netflix and not caring about what actually goes on in their life, gets very old, very quickly. Have some goals and passions in your life that you focus on daily.
Everyone curses sometimes. It is a way of using language to emphasize something and make a point. But dropping F-Bombs all the time, and cursing unnecessarily is not an attractive quality. It comes off as a bit basic and rude and makes a guy feel like he could never bring you around his family.
There is being friendly and charming and then there is flirting unnecessarily to get attention. It is a huge turn off when girls are constantly throwing themselves around at men and flirting in hopes of getting guys to want them. It's like being a tease and if you are trying to date a guy, why tease other men?
The same old routine can get so old so fast. Work, take-out, Netflix, sleep, repeat. If you are the type off girl who loves to stay in this safe zone all of the time. You are not going to come off as a very attractive mate to another guy. Be bold and spontaneous. It keeps life interesting.
Don't doubt yourself or who you are. Don't look to others for their opinion to determine your self worth. And don't live in a constant state of low self confidence where you don't feel like you deserve what you have. You deserve the world, you are fully capable, and you are amazing. Own it.
